To have a balanced and successful life, you need to have a calm mind. Life is running fast. It seems like yesterday when we used to enjoy the winter and winter sunshine outside.
It is unknown at this time what he will do after leaving the post. Many of us today will be seen complaining of indifference, social attitudes, and intolerance. But where do we stand, have we ever wondered?
It is true that inflation, unemployment, and unstable economic and political situation have made us very irritable. Just as a racehorse has a shell-like cover around its eyes so that it can focus on the front race without needing to be surrounded, so too can the flow of flour, lentils, gas bills around our eyes.
Children’s fees and house rents have been covered so that we can see nothing but them. That is why with the fast-paced life and the whip of time we are also forced to run fast and by the time we get closer to the destination, we will have run out of time.
The secret of Successful Life
Remember! We can buy a watch, but not the time. Comfortable beds can be bought, no sleep and good food but no health! Stay tuned; get a little cheaper, get refreshed. Let go of the stretched veins of your brain, relax a little. You are human, not a machine or robot. Take some time out for yourself and your loved ones.
List down your blessings. Try to pay tribute to the sincere relationships around you. Take a quick look at your situation and see what you can do, at least in the current resources. 2020 is coming to an end.
See who to apologize to? Which of your mistakes do you have to admit or who do you have to forgive? What good deeds to appreciate and what mistakes not to repeat?
What to do?
To have a successful and balanced life, you need to have a calm mind. Then you have a plan for the future, a roadmap, or a way forward. Have complete planning. Set your vision. Plan short term (two to three months), mid-term (eight to twelve months), and long term (two to three years).
Set goals. Talk to yourself, pick up a notebook, give yourself deadlines. See what you have to do in two to three months.
What do you do in the next six to twelve months and then where do you see yourself in two to three years? Try to protect yourself from negative people and negative thoughts. Also, avoid people who are frustrated and discouraged. God has made you his vicegerent. The big animal that the forest lion is afraid of, we humans also imprison him in a cage.
Believe me, these are small pleasures that do not require much capital or sacrifice. Here is a foreign country, most of us are happy to do so. Then when are you starting this?
You don’t have to be a millionaire to be happy. Remove obstacles along the way. In case you see an excessive load on someone, take two steps, and share the load. If you see someone coming from a distance, stop the elevator door. If you are on a car or motorbike, let pedestrians pass before you relax.
Whenever you see a sad, anxious, or broken person in the market, office, or on the street, stop for two minutes and inquire about his condition and reassure him as you go, “Don’t worry, everything will be fine.”